Kpop is that unnecessary?

I have been 7 months into Kpop

These are the positive things I found from got into Kpop

     First thing first, let me tell you, I am a student and not really have interest of getting in relationship. As I into Kpop, I have mindset that "it is okay if I single, I am happy now", guys, please, You. Can. Get. Happiness. From. Your. Own. You don't need wait your crush to accept your love since you can have your imaginary bf/gf. Now, I decide to stay single until one day God open my heart to find my true love.

     Secondly, I learnt about friendship. I mean, how to be a good entertainer, how to strengthen the friendship, to make peace, and to learn how to love each other as a friend. I know, many of us have toxic friendship, like, "she envy me for having this", "I'm so jealous she being close to her". I tell you, I stan a group called GOT7 and you know, I really learnt many things about friendship when I watch their videos, variety shows, and others. They really love each others, they support each other, the affections they gave to each other. they really wanted their friendship to last long, but us, some time never thought about how long last our friendship going to be. 

     Other than that, I see kpop as their career, how they earned money as an Idol. They physically and mentally tired. Yes all human do. We all tired of working, studying, what I highlight is their tiredness that I really never thought. I give you link about trainee life to be an Idol, here -https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-life-of-a-Kpop-trainee-like-in-detail?q=life%20as%20a%20trainee, also, they practice dancing, learning new language, practice vocal, as an Idol, taking care of their appearance (weight, height, BMI,). As a conclusion, many things I acknowledged about Idol's career.

     Last but not least, THE MOST IMPORTANT! my English language improvement. My English really improved when I got into kpop. Why? Because I read English comments, try commenting in English, watch their variety shows in English subtitle, communicate with international fans, get an international friend(penpal), and many more. I am really proud of my improvement now. I may not scored in examination but, you know English grade not define our IQ.

However,

 We are also human that have our own purpose of life, family, commitment, self-care, self-reputation that needed to focus on. Kpop is entertainment, you want to support? go ahead, but remember to put yourself first. Remember our God, dream, parent, our beloved ones.

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